Friday, February 29, 2008

Personal Growth and Science?

One of the questions that a lot of people have is - how can you use "science" in the same sentence with personal growth, manifesting your dreams or spirituality? It would seem that "hard" science has nothing to do with "soft and squishy" human issues.

For those of you who know me only as a newsletter writer, you should know that I have an engineering degree and spent many years in high technology and science. I have a real need, myself, for scientific grounding in everything I do. So let's look at this question.

First, let's agree that science has nothing to say about beliefs and other subjective experience, whether they are true or not. They cannot be measured. However, science can measure the effects of those beliefs in your life. And that's what I want to talk about - the effects in your life.

What is science? Well, the essence of science, for our purposes, consists of measurement and repeatability. Every new scientific discovery is tested by other scientists who conduct the same experiment and see if they get the same results. If not, the results and theory are not accepted.

Can we apply this idea to success and personal growth? Yes, not only can we, but we absolutely must do that is we want predictable results. In his book, "Science of Getting Rich", Wallace Wattles says, "It is a natural law that the same causes always produce the same effects." So if it's not repeatable, it's not science.

So how would we put this to work in our lives? Let me use a simple analogy - baking an apple pie. Any cook will tell you that there are three things you need to be successful - the right recipe, the right ingredients, and the right process. Every cook tinkers with this formula a little bit to make it their own, but you have to stick reasonably close to the formula or you don't get a decent apple pie. You can see that this is a "scientific process" because it has a repeatable formula.

So let's apply this to our own lives and ask how we can "bake" the life we want. It seems that we will need a recipe, the right ingredients, and a process. There's a lot of people running around with recipes and most leave out what I think are vital ingredients so it's no surprise that people are confused.

Here's what I've found, after 10 years of study. There are six ingredients - a powerful, exciting life purpose, a clear and distinct vision of what living that purpose looks like, strong and complete belief that you can and will have it, continuous gratitude for every part of your life, expelling the limiting beliefs and attitudes that do not support you, and courageous, effective action.

Notice that money, talent, location, connections, being old enough, being young enough, being smart enough, etc, etc are not on the list. If you think those are necessary, that's a limiting belief that you need to clear. If you think you need to know how to do it all to get started, that's a BIG limiting belief that you need to discard. It's not on the list of ingredients!

Discarding limiting beliefs is like purifying the ingredients in the apple pie. You wash the apples and cut out any spoiled spots so you have clean crisp apples to work with. Limiting beliefs contaminate the success recipe, and the number one limiting belief is that there's not enough. Not enough time, talent, money, customers, good employees, etc. There is always enough, and more.

Here's the process that goes with the recipe. You must start with the purpose, then create the vision that expresses it. Many people start with goals,and the pie is a failure. Start with purpose.

You must get so excited and confident about what you're doing that you totally expect it. When you put the pie in the oven, do you wish and hope and pray that a pie will come out? Heck, no! You KNOW it will. And that's the kind of expectation that you need.

Season with gratitude. Gratitude for everything, even the challenges and setbacks. Be grateful for the learning experiences, the people, the events, for all of it. As Wattles says, "Gratitude keeps you connected to the Source of all your good." Gratitude makes your heart sing, and attracts more good things.

When you have these 5 things in operation, then apply effective action. That means putting your purpose, vision and faith into everything you do. You supercharge your activities with purpose. You'll also need to act with courage because you'll be changing and growing. You'll be outside your comfort zone, but you'll realize that everything you really want is always just outside your comfort zone. You become comfortable with being uncomfortable.

An important part of effective action is trusting your inner knowing, your intuition, to guide you in what to do. You don't have to know how, when you start, because your purpose, vision and faith program your mind and the Universe to guide you a step at a time.

But you may need to train yourself to immediately follow your intuitive leadings. Joe Vitale likes to say, "The Universe loves speed." The more sensitive you are and the faster you act, the better your results.

I'm writing this article because I was thinking about science and spirituality while I was cooking breakfast about an hour ago and the article started to form in my mind. I really felt inside that this was important so I put my other projects on hold and sat down to write. Follow your intuition to develop effective action.

Now here's the science conclusion. Follow this recipe with these ingredients and process, and your success will come out of the oven like a delicious apple pie. It's repeatable. As Wattles says, "There IS a science to getting rich." Rich in body, mind and spirit.

Can I guarantee your results for you? No, because I don't know how good a cook you are or how pure your ingredients are. But just like the people who publish cookbooks, I know the recipe works.

Need any cooking lessons? Got the ingredients? You can get the help you need to bake the pie you want here.

The Certain Way To Success

5 Comments:

At 2/29/2008 10:52 AM, Blogger dhyana said...

Wonderful article.I'm an artist I paint.I feel my ingredients are pure, but I'm not sure about what kind of pie I want to bake. I have never stopped painting, and want to succeed with it.I wonder if I should just concentrating on being the best apinter I can be and the universe will presents offers? Or a new avnue will present itself, but am certainly open to the universe, and follow my intution.

 
At 2/29/2008 11:14 AM, Anonymous Nan said...

I liked your article!

The part that spoke the 'loudest' to me was when you talked about following your intuition. You said you got the idea for writing the article while cooking breakfast and then followed up with action.

I can't tell you how many times I've 'thought' about doing something and then didn't follow up on it.

Thank you for the reminder to pay more attention to my inner thoughts and to follow what they are trying to tell me.

Blessings!

 
At 2/29/2008 11:50 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I like your reference to baking a pie - it makes it much more easier to understand. Thank you.

 
At 2/29/2008 3:58 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love the simplicity of the "recipe". Because of the "Secret" I started seeking and it never fails to amaze me how when I need a "pick me up" or reminder it always appears. This one appered at just the right moment. I hope that my ingredients are pure enough because I am finally beginning to see the end in the begining. I want that "perfect" pie. Thank you so much for all you do.

 
At 4/27/2008 5:58 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dearest Wes,

I just read your eBook "The Astonishing Power Of Gratitude" and I came here to say thank you so very much! I am truly grateful as these were the answers I needed to hear.

Since January 2008 when I found out about Law Of Attraction...I cannot express in words the extent of the euphoric enthusiasm I felt. It was like coming home after a long absence. And me, the ultimate optimist thought, well if that is all I have to do, wow, I am home free.

Excitedly, I wrote poems, made list, got some goals, took some courses, changed my attitude and a good things (and strange things) started to happen.

Now as I look back after reading your "Personal Growth and Science" post. I totally get, what I did not get then. You see, I ignored some of the signs because they had been presented to me before, and even though I did better, the Universe ask for more as well and it was so simple, I did not get it at all.

Here is one of the stories. I went to the store to cash in a lottery ticket that I found in a pile of papers that I'd bought the year before and had previously check on the internet and declared it "not" to be a winner. But as I had a growing stack of tickets, I decided to recheck each to see if I got any of the numbers right. When I noticed I did have a winner, I rushed to the store. As I got out of the car, a man approached me. Joyously, I gave him some money, I think $5.00, and in return, he handed me a business card w/211 written on it. I did not know what that meant, but oddly, I felt the need to keep it. Upon entering the store afterwards, instead of winning the amount I expected, the amount was doubled. In the coming days, I started seeing the number 211 repeatedly, but did nothing.

Though I was looking for the signs and opportunities like all my teachers said. I had no clue that it was the small simple ones that would have made the biggest difference in my life.

As the days went on, all that I worked for started coming unraveled and one stress lead to another until yesterday when it all came undone, and then today started with a shock. I was so frustrated, I started writing a book titled: Desperate, The truth, in a nutshell; LOL. It is funny now, because upon writing those words, I confessed to the Universe that I needed help! I needed clarification and understanding; I needed to know and understand what I was doing wrong!!!!

I know and understand now that, "Sincere Gratitude" was the missing ingredient in my pie; for I had been the "selective/ ungrateful giver." In addition, I had not been honest with myself. I had not truly forgiven myself and others in my life. I realize now how much it affected everything.

Thank you again, I am ever grateful for your clear and concise messages. In the coming weeks I hope to tell you how much you have helped me. Until then, I leave you with this inspired thought that came to me:

"I Live To Let Live"

By example I live my life
aware I am free
I appreciate the perfection
of Universal decree

Aware all mankind
is listening to their own sage
Reading from the same book,
just on a different page

While I in this world,
but not of it, commit
Looking from within,
harmoniously I sit

Appealing to life’s best
with directed intent
Receiving in return
my dreams content

Good seeds I sow
grow quickly into mighty trees
Healthy roots as solid,
as they are deep

And my strong serenity
gratefully radiates
Life’s winds may blow,
but steady will be my pace

And unto each heart
my love I sent
Best wish and hope
beautiful world transend

Then flow with the oneness
synchronicity brings
Forever in gratitude
may the whole world sing

Many blessings to you all, from my heart. Ondra

 

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