Create Success Newsletter!
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Create Success Newsletter
Volume 5, Issue 9 - May 2008
Powerful Tips to Grow Your Business and Your Life
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In this issue ---
We now have subscribers to this newsletter in 70
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Please - look at that list of countries above! If your country
is not listed, drop me a note using the
Contact form
so I can add your country to the list.
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What's the "333" Story?
Suppose you were given the task of finding out
how you could raise $3 million in a 3-hour window
just 3 days from now? Sounds pretty impossible,
doesn't it? Yet the story of how it was done provides
one of the best problem solving techniques I've ever
found, and you can use it on any problem!
Perhaps you're trying to grow a business. You might
want to hear Paul Hutsey tell how he took his
insurance office in the little town of Pittsburg, Kansas
to #1 in the whole country - more sales than New York,
or Chicago, or Los Angeles. His solution can be
applied to any business, including yours.
These stories, and many more, are contained in the
DVD video of a live Born Rich seminar that Bob Proctor
and John Kanary led several years ago. The 6 DVDs
and 15 CDs captured the whole two days, plus more
comments and explanations from Bob.
Read more of the stories here:
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Lead Article
How To Change People
“The doors we open and close each day
decide the lives we live.”
- - Flora Whittemore
As some of you know, I'm writing a book on how to
create successful relationships. I suffered badly in this
area for years, and when I finally figured it out, I thought
there might be a few others who would like to know how
to do it. Turns out I was right. You can read about it at
you-can-have-it.com
I get a lot of questions submitted to me from that site
and the most common one is "I'm madly in love with
Mr/Ms Wonderful and how do I get them to be madly in
love with me?"
When I thought about it, I realized that the answer to
this question is important in a lot of areas of our lives,
not just our love life.
It's about people. What do we do when people won't do
what we want them to? In business, in families, in social
organizations, in love. What do we do? How do we
change people?
Well, here's the first bit of blindingly obvious insight:
people don't like to be changed! In fact, they can get
downright hostile when you try. If you've ever been
on the receiving end of someone trying to change
you, you know how it feels.
In some cases, with coworkers or your kids, you can
find ways to create motivation for change, but to be
effective it must be positive motivation - pulling them
toward something they want. Negative motivation is
very ineffective and creates resentment, so fear and
punishment are a last resort.
In reality, the only person you can change is you. If
you have business or romantic partners that need
changing, and you can't or won't change to make the
relationship work for you, then you need to change
them - by replacing them.
Now here's the most important idea for you to take
away from this article. If you are in relationships where
the other people need changing, ask yourself why you
are doing that.Why do you choose to have people like
that in your life? If you don't figure that out, the new
people will be just like the old ones!
For most of us, if we have repetitive patterns in people,
it's a sign of an old issue of some kind buried in our
subconscious. We can change the people, but if we
don't change the pattern we just keep having the same
problems over and over.
Do you have any "problem people patterns" in your
life? Look back in your life all the way to your
childhood and see if you can find the first time you
felt that way. You will find the buried issue in the
memory of the earliest occurrence.
If you have a specific question for me about this, use
the Contact form on the web site to let me know.
To your success,
Wes
Comments or questions? Drop me a line using the
Contact form
on my web site.
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Resources
Did you know that if you drive 25,000 miles per year,
you spend the equivalent of 13 40-hour weeks behind
the wheel? Imagine how much you could learn if you
were listening to audio programs instead of talk radio!
That's a full-time one semester academic program.
That could be your best way to change yourself.
Here's a good place to start. There are 15 CDs and
you'll learn a boatload of skills that will make your
success easier than you ever thought possible. Did
I mention that you save $200?
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**Disclaimer - Results not typical.
Your results are the product of your own efforts and
we do not promise any particular outcome for you if
you follow our advice or take one of our seminars.
I hope you already knew this.
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© 2008 Wes Hopper. All rights reserved.
Feel free to pass the above in its entirety to
anyone you wish.
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